Don’t get me wrong—I love a good plot twist, and if I can contribute to that in any way, I absolutely will. Life should be full of spontaneous moments, bold decisions, and unforgettable stories, right?
DISCLAIMER: The author of this post (yours truly) is begging you not to text your bum ex who treated you dirty and made you feel like trash for the plot. Let me be very clear: I am not talking about reigniting that dumpster fire of a relationship just to stir up some drama. We’re talking about taking actual risks here—like booking that last-minute vacation, saying yes to a date with someone you never thought you’d give the time of day, or maybe even doing three tequila shots instead of two. But texting him? No, girl, absolutely not. That’s not the kind of plot twist we’re going for.
Now that we’ve cleared that up… back to what I was saying.
Life is short, and sometimes we get so caught up trying to follow the script society has written for us—blend in, play it safe, stick to what’s familiar. But where’s the fun in that? Do you really want your story to be one of playing by the rules, blending into the background, and never stepping outside of your comfort zone? Because I sure don’t.
Here’s the truth: We weren’t put on this earth to blend in. Life isn’t about following some cookie-cutter narrative. It’s about creating your own plot, one where you are the lead character, making bold moves and living on your own terms. Who cares if your choices aren’t what everyone else expects? Let them talk. You’re here to live, not just exist.
So, take the trip. Wear that bold, maybe slightly ridiculous outfit that makes you feel alive. Go on that date with someone totally outside of your type. Do three tequila shots instead of two (or, you know, skip the shots and do something even crazier like signing up for that art class or hiking that mountain). Life is short, but it’s full of opportunities to create moments that truly matter—ones that push you out of your comfort zone and make you realize you don’t have to settle for ordinary.
And let me tell you, an ex who treated you like an afterthought is as ordinary as it gets. We’re talking about a plot worth reading, worth living. Trust me, there’s no need to cast him in your next chapter when the story you’re writing is meant to be extraordinary.So, if you’re going to live for the plot, make sure it’s your plot—a plot that makes you proud, one filled with risks that lead to real rewards, not old habits that lead to heartache. And, please, leave Mr. Bum Ex in the past where he belongs.
