If you’ve been low-key stressing over whether to gift your situationship something this holiday season, take a deep breath – we’re breaking it all down.
Step 1: Gauge the Situation
First things first: what kind of situationship are you actually in? Are you both hanging out casually, with zero talk about the future? Are there moments that almost make it feel serious, but without a defined label? Understanding where you are in the “situationship spectrum” will help guide you in gift-giving territory.
Step 2: What Does Your Gut Say?
If your heart’s telling you to get them something small and cute – a funny mug, a cool keychain, or even a gift card to their favorite coffee spot – that’s totally fine. It’s not too intense, and it shows you’re thoughtful without implying a big commitment.
Step 3: Keep It Simple
Remember, less is more in these cases. Pick something thoughtful yet low-key. Maybe it’s their favorite snack, a cozy pair of socks for winter, or a fun, “I saw this and thought of you” book. You’re showing you care without overdoing it.
Step 4: Avoid Overthinking the Price
When it comes to situationships, price tags can say more than words. Avoid anything extravagant or personal, like a framed photo of the two of you (save that for the official relationship!). Just think: small, fun, and under $20.
Step 5: Know When to Hold Back
Sometimes, not giving a gift is the best choice. If the situationship is already on rocky ground or if you’re sensing red flags, it’s better to skip the gift. In some cases, stepping back can even help clarify whether this is worth your emotional energy.
