Here we go again with the Valentine’s Day shit. “Be my Valentine” here, “Be my Valentine” there, overpriced flowers, and can we talk about how you can’t snag a dinner reservation anywhere because, well, it’s FUCKING VALENTINE’S DAY.
Now, before you think I’m bitter (I’m not—maybe just a little), let me clarify: I’m not anti-love. I’m all for love! But can we talk about us single folks for a minute? Where’s our holiday? Where’s our celebration? Why does love only count when it involves someone else?
So, I’m saying this loud and clear for the people in the back: relationship or no relationship, love should still be celebrated. And you know what? Valentine’s Day is a perfect excuse to show yourself some love.
Welcome to The Single’s Guide to Valentine’s Day, where we’re swapping couples’ clichés for self-love extravagance. Here’s how to celebrate the person who really matters—you.
Step 1: Romanticize the Hell Out of Your Day
Who says you can’t indulge just because you’re single? Throw on your favorite outfit (yes, the cute one that makes you feel unstoppable), grab a coffee from that overpriced café you love, and take yourself out. Be your own damn date! Walk around like the main character you are, because, spoiler: you are.
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Step 2: Treat Yo’ Self
Flowers? Buy them. A fancy dessert? Order two. Spa day? Book it. You don’t need anyone else to gift you joy—pick out something that makes your heart flutter and call it a gift from you to you.
Step 3: Netflix and Chill (With Yourself)
No awkward date-night small talk. No sharing snacks. Just you, your coziest blanket, and that one movie you’ve been meaning to watch but never got around to. Bonus points if it’s a rom-com where the love interest is hotter than your ex.
Step 4: Write a Love Letter—to Yourself
Cringe? Maybe. Therapeutic? Absolutely. Take a minute to remind yourself of all the reasons you’re amazing, accomplished, and worth every ounce of love in the world. It’s a little weird at first, but trust me—it hits.
Step 5: Call Your Crew
If self-love isn’t vibing for you this year, pull your friends together for a Galentine’s Day or Broentine’s Day celebration. Order pizza, sip some wine, and roast cheesy Valentine’s traditions until you’re laughing so hard you forget what you were even bitter about
The truth is, Valentine’s Day isn’t about roses, chocolates, or fancy dinners. It’s about love—and that includes loving yourself. So, light that candle, turn up Beyoncé, and remember: no one knows how to love you better than you.
Happy Valentine’s Day to you, babe. You deserve it all. 💕
